Ultimately, whether u are handsome, ugly, fat, thin, Fulgy or whatever you are you would be able to meet your Ms right.
SITUATION 1
As you are walking down busy street like orchard, i bet you would have encounter such situation at least once and would have commented sth like this – Couples who are not compatible at all , in the sense that how did that ugly guy get hooked on such a gorgeous girl? Is that girl Blind or what? What has the world become?
SITUATION 2
You are giving everything you have got, spending every single minute, using every drip of your brain juice to come up with ideas, using every last bit of energy. You are doing almost every single thing possible to grab hold of her heart, or at least make notice ur existence. However, the next minute you know, she got hooked up with this hopeless boy in your school, or maybe your hardcore rival/enemy in school.
So, whats so bad about you that she chose him over you? Even though, base on facts you would be smarter, much more caring and would have a better future than that awful guy. Base on facts, he is vulgar, screwed up and ugly. She definitely deserve someone better like you. So whats wrong? Is she really blind? Whats wrong with the law of nature?
There is something i have discovered which might be the answer to both situation mentioned above. Girls are definitely some complicated creatures (Of course to them guy are some weirdos too). Probably you can blame it on fate if you believe in it. But what i realise is the fact that when a girl falls for a guy, she falls for his action. Too vague? Alright, let me explain:
1) I once asked girl A why did she like guy A, she replied “because he is really nice and sweet to me, his friend told me he changed alot for me.”
2) After sometime, girl B came up to me and told me she likes guy B, she said its the chemistry that they share and its the interaction which made her felt that he is the one she is looking for. Guy B rides bike, drives car, do sky diving, has great sweet talking skills.
3) While studying in Mac, guy C saw girl C and decided to ask for her number. he then went up to girl C confidently and asked for her number. Since then, he had been asking her out, spending happy times together. And now, they have been together for about two years.
The law of nature is something really amazing.
There are a few contributing factors to a start of a relationship.
- Fate – Right place, right time.. It was fate which allowed guy C to meet girl C.
- Then followed by Action. If guy A did not do away with his bad habit which girl A dislike or tries his best grab hold of girl A’s heart. Girl A wouldnt give a shit about guy A.
- Interaction (communication) - Be who you are, speak confidently. Girls definitely prefer someone who is confident. interaction definitely allow both of you to build up chemistry, something which u are able to feel for her (this is abit vague, but i guess u know what im driving at). *note* This is also one of the vital factors to maintain a good r/s.
- ???? – Yes! Question marks! Its something which is cannot be define. something which only She can understand what she is thinking, or even she herself doesnt know why is this happening or why is she falling for him!
In the nutshell, it is the law of nature which brings both of them together. Too bad, if you dont have the luck to meet pretty girls, too bad you are unlucky to fall in love with a complicated girl who is “blind”. Your chance will come, but when it comes make sure you give everything you have got. Its the happiness that you are after, so dont lose it.
